Welcome to a space where asking for help is okay, failure is a gift, change is an opportunity, and your story is a superpower.

My inner child would thank me for it. Maybe yours will, too.

Tori’s Experience

I’m an executive coach, business advisor, and former brand executive who helps multidisciplinary women in high-stakes industries lead with clarity, credibility, and emotional integrity.

I founded How to Fck Up Well as a leadership and coaching studio for women who are ready to step into bolder roles, scale their influence, and build businesses that don’t require self-sacrifice as the cost of success. My clients include founders, senior executives, and high-performing creatives across tech, media, finance, and advertising—women who think expansively, lead intuitively, and want to build systems that actually support human flourishing.

My approach to leadership didn’t start in a boardroom; it started in my family’s restaurant.

I grew up watching my parents create a space where people felt seen, fed, and safe. Behind the scenes, I learned how to read a room, resolve tension, and tend to others before they asked. That early exposure to emotional labor and entrepreneurial grit became the foundation for how I operate today: as a strategic mirror, bridge-builder, and systems architect for women carrying both ambition and responsibility.

Before launching my practice, I spent over a decade leading brand and marketing strategy across B2B and B2C companies—from early-stage startups to global platforms. I worked closely with founders, executive teams, and creative leaders to turn messy ideas into bold moves and design values-driven ecosystems that grow with intention.

What makes my work different is the way I blend emotional intelligence with structural strategy. I don’t just help clients perform better. I help them recognize the hidden patterns, pressures, and power dynamics shaping how they lead, communicate, and make high-stakes decisions. Together, we co-create tools tailored to their real-world context, so they can move through those systems with foresight and self-trust.

My core belief? Self-respecting women build better companies, and that shift is good for everyone: for business, for culture, and for the next generation of leadership.

Tori’s Services

  • Through private and group coaching, I help entrepreneurs and executives:

    • Lead harmoniously, with authenticity, purpose, and community at the forefront

    • Create meaningful change in their industries and organizations

    • Build healthier, more resilient teams and businesses

    Check out my coaching services here!

  • I educate and inspire audiences through keynotes, workshops, panels, and other multi-media experiences on topics like:

    • Leadership Development

    • Creative Entrepreneurship

    • Failure & Taking Risks

    • Women at Work

    • Venture-Funded Startups

    • Values-Driven Decision Making

    • Work/Life Harmony

    • Needs-Based Growth

    • Transformative Business Practices

    • Stakeholder Alignment

    • Founder-Investor Dynamics

    • Co-Founder Dynamics

    • Gen Z at Work

    • Crisis & Conflict Management

    • Future of Work & Technology

    • Strategic Communication & Storytelling

    • Crafting an Authentic Public Persona & Executive Presence

    • Building Workforce Resilience

    • Freedom-Based Business Practices

    • Self-Management & Determination

    • Relationship & Community Building

    • Innovative Team & Culture Building Tactics

    • Creative Leadership Principles

    • Self-Advocacy & Worth

    • Lifestyle Design

    • Multi-Disciplinary & Fractional Career Advancement

    • Fundraising Mindset & Pitching Best Practices

    Check out my media kit here!

  • I create bespoke leadership and career development resources for companies to white-label and offer to their team or audience.

    For example:

    • Self-Paced Online Courses

    • Video Tutorials

    • Standard Operating Procedures

    • Workbooks & Guides

    • Strategic Templates

    Check out the career development course I created for Girlboss here!